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..::” Your presence is the most precious gift you can give to another human being.
~ Marshal Rosenberg

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..::” NEVER do anything that isn’t play.
~Marshal Rosenberg :: NVC

 

..::” Criticism, analysis, and insults are tragic expressions of unmet needs.
~ Marshal Rosenberg :: NVC

 

…::”There is one universal religion… the religion of love… Love your Heavenly Father with your whole heart and soul, love every child of God as much as you ever can, and remember that the possibilities of good are greater than the possibilities of evil; and you have the key to Heaven.
~Bishop Brooks

 

…::” Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all of the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. Peace will never come from the illusion of love, but only from its reality.
~ACIM T-16.IV.6.

 

..::” Power-Over” leads to punishment and violence… “Power-With” leads to compassion and understanding, and to learning motivated by reverence for life rather than fear, guilt, shame, or anger.
~ Marshal Rosenberg

 

..::” Our survival as a species depends on our ability to recognize that our well-being and the well-being of others are in fact One and the same.
~Marshall Rosenberg

 

..::” The ego always attacks on behalf of separation… Believing it has the power to do this, it does nothing else.
~ACIM T-11.V.

 

..::”It is impossible for the ego to enter into any relationship without anger, for the ego believes that *ANGER* makes FRIENDS. This is not its statement, but it IS its purpose. For the ego really BELIEVES that it can GET and keep BY MAKING GUILTY. This is its ONE attraction.
~ACIM T-15.VII.2.

 

…::”The ego wishes NO ONE well. Yet its survival depends on your belief that YOU are exempt from its evil intentions. It counsels, therefore, that if you are host to IT, it will enable you to direct the *ANGER* that it holds outward, thus PROTECTING you. And thus it embarks on an endless, unrewarding chain. The Holy Spirit CANNOT teach through fear.
~ACIM T-15.VII.4.

 

..::” Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily *ANGERED*, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It *ALWAYS* protects, *ALWAYS* trusts, *ALWAYS* hopes, *ALWAYS* perseveres.
~ 1 Corinthians 13:4-8

 

..::” The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions: the work you do… social status and recognition… knowledge and education… physical appearance… special abilities… relationships… person and family history… belief systems… and often also political… nationalistic… racial… religious… and other collective identifications… None of these is you.
~ Eckhart Tolle

 

When the “EGOIC” identity is taken to the extreme, it becomes the narcissist who is spiritually blind and deaf…..  Forgive them…. “they know not”, what they do.

 

 

..::”Blessed are those who have been persecuted for the sake of *righteousness* [not sin, but righteousness], for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 11: Blessed are *you* when men cast “insults” at you, and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely [not truly], on account of Me. (being only Love) 12: REJOICE, and BE GLAD [that is, DO NOT let your conscience be troubled as if you were guilty of their hostility], for your reward in heaven is great, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
~Matthew 5:10-12

 

…What Jesus says is that sometimes people will hold something against you when they shouldn’t…insulting you, persecuting you, saying all kinds of evil against you falsely. What do you do in such circumstances? Do you stop worshiping as long as someone feels like this about you? … If so, Jesus would never have been able to worship in the latter years of his life. He was constantly opposed. They sought to trip him up in his speech. They tried to kill him. They tried to shame him. Was he responsible for this? Not only that, he said that the same would be true for his disciples.

 

…In Matthew 24:9 he said, “You will be hated by all nations on account of my name.” (being and trusting the empathic love in equality with all).  In other words, “If you are faithful to me, somebody will always have something against you.” REF: DesiringGod.org/messages/getting-right-with-god-and-each-other

 

..::” Whenever you consent to suffer pain, to be deprived, unfairly treated or in need of anything, you but accuse your brother of attack upon God’s Son.
~ ACIM T-27.I.3.

 

..::” All attack is Self attack… It cannot be anything else… Arising from your own decision not to be what *you are*… it is an attack on your identification… Attack is thus the way in which your identification is “lost”… because when you attack, you must have forgotten what you *are*… And if your reality is God’s, when you attack you are not remembering *Him*… This is not because He is gone, but because you are *actively choosing* not to remember Him.
~ ACIM T-10.II.5. TakeMeToTruth.org/nouks-blog/undoing-unconscious-self-attack/

 

..::” Forgiveness is always given you… It is impossible to forgive “another”… for it is only “your sins” you see in him… You want to see them “there”, and not in you… That is why forgiveness of “another” is an illusion.
~ACIM S-2.I.4. Song of prayer

 

..::” All forgiveness is a gift to yourself… Your goal is to find out who you are.
~ACIM W-62.2.

 

..::” There is only One religion, the religion of Love.
~ Diane Olive

 

..::” There is only One language, the language of the Heart.
~ Diane Olive

 

..::” In the holy instant the condition of love is met, for minds are joined without the body’s interference, and where there is communication there is peace.
~ ACIM T-15.XI.7.

 

..::” It is not danger that comes when defenses are laid down. It is safety. It is peace. It is joy. And it is God.
~ACIM M-4.VI.1.

 

..::” The most dangerous psychological mistake is the PROJECTION of the shadow onto others. This is the root of almost all conflicts.
~Carl Jung

 

..::” If we do anything to harm someone else” a powerful new factor comes into PLAY: the need to JUSTIFY what you did”. once the persecutor starts down the path of BLAMING THE VICTIM, he becomes likely to physically and psychologically attack the victim with even GREATER ferocity the next chance he gets. ~”Mistakes Were Made” (but not by me) By ~Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson

 

..::” As the Buddha said, his teaching will not be destroyed by outsiders but by insiders who do not practice the true dharma.
~Chogyam Trungpa

 

..::”We are all going to die” all of us” what a circus! ” THAT ALONE should make us LOVE each other” but it doesn’t… We are terrorized and flattered by trivialities” we are eaten up by nothing.
~Charles Bukowski

 

..::”ca·ve·at emp·tor :: the principle that the buyer alone is responsible for checking the quality and suitability before a purchase is made. “caveat emptor” still applies when buying your non-duality 🙂

 

..::”Hippocratic Oath :: “Do no harm” :: Ahimsa

 

Ahimsa :: (in the Hindu, Buddhist, and Jainist tradition) respect for all living things and avoidance of violence toward others”

 

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..::”Nobody in the world, nobody in history, has ever gotten their freedom by appealing to the moral sense of people who are oppressing them.

 
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Active Listening

We Think We Listen, but that might be a thought!

https://empathymatters.org/now/active-listening-carl-rogers/

Understanding this could greatly reduce human suffering.

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🌺❤🌺“The finest emotion of which we are capable is the mystic emotion. Herein lies the seed of all art and all true science. Anyone to whom this feeling is alien, who is no longer capable of wonderment and lives in a state of fear is already dead. ~Albert Einstein
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🌺❤🌺”Refusing humility traps you in delusion.
~People will convince themselves they are fighting you…
~while being blind to the fact that it was never actually about you…
~it has actually been a one-sided beef with their Creator all along.
~This is why we say, “Don’t kill the messenger ♡🌺❤🌺
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🌺❤🌺 Love Albert Einstein 🌺 … Only a comic book bible would suggest a cultish behavior to genoc~~ everyone else, but some special chosen ones? OMG
 
 

Imagine living on a planet where the rich get richer by indoctrinating the people to follow ancient dogma, repeating an ancient doctrine of genocide projected onto innocent children, again and again, the rich get richer, and the children receive brutal indoctrination instead of Living Their Sacred Free & Joyful Life.

 

#IFS #Spirit #Self #Courage

 

Secret History: How Evil Triumphs: 

 

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