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Schaden Freude

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The word “schadenfreude” comes from the German “schaden,” meaning damage or harm, and “freude,” meaning joy or pleasure.

https://www.cbc.ca/radio/sunday/the-sunday-edition-for-march-10-2019-1.5048324/why-do-we-enjoy-another-s-misfortune-author-tiffany-watt-smith-s-insight-into-schadenfreude-1.5049085

Schaden Freude ::

synonyms :: sadism, sardonic
see also: COGNITIVE_DISSONANCE

..::”Schaden Freude” :: It is obvious that schadenfreude is not an English word — it’s German, and it’s made up of the words Schaden, which means “harm” and Freude, which means “joy.”   By definition, schadenfreude means finding joy in someone else’s harm or misfortune. Schaden Freude would be exactly against, or ” anti -” the teachings of Jesus Christ.

 

As the social psychologist, Jonathan Haidt, noted that an “us” versus “them” mindset “…. often leads to comparing one’s enemies to infectious “parasites.” It results in using metaphors that evoke the moral emotion of disgust.  Disgust, according to psychologists Buckels and Trapnell “appears to have the unique capacity to foster the social-cognitive dehumanization of outcast members.”

 

Hitler understood this perfectly, and with his dehumanizing rhetoric, promoted an anti-Jewish exterminationist mentality across Europe. In 1943, Heinrich Himmler, whose mission was to make Jews “disappear from this earth,” declared that “Anti-Semitism is exactly the same as delousing. Getting rid of “lice” is not a question of ideology. It is a matter of “cleansing”. Nazi leader Hermann Goering referred to Jews as “swine.”

 

When the Nazis described Jews as “subhumans”, they didn’t mean it metaphorically, they meant literally “subhuman.”

 

“When a person dehumanizes another human being, they actually conceive of them as subhuman creatures.”

 

Psychologically, to kill another human being or to inflict atrocities against a human being is against our nature. So, when it does happen, it can be useful to understand what it is that allows human beings “to overcome the very deep and natural inhibitions every human has against treating other people like “sub-humans”.

 

President Trump uses similar dehumanizing language. New York Times columnist Bret Stephens and correspondent Maggie Haberman noted that Trump’s terminology of “infestation” makes immigrants into insects. Using metaphors such as insects, vermin, parasites, garbage, and such elicits the feelings of disgust one has for those things and connects that emotion of disgust with the person or group of people described.

 

According to psychologist David Matsumoto and his colleagues, combining feelings of disgust with contempt and anger is particularly potent. Leaders who generate these three emotions at once can engender violence against the targets of their dehumanization.

 

During the Holocaust, over 40,000 concentration camps and ghettos were established in Europe. Today, almost half of Americans cannot name a single one. Not even Auschwitz. In fact, when asked about it by name in 2018, more than 40% of American adults and fully two-thirds of American Millennials did not know what Auschwitz was.

 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/happiness-and-the-pursuit-leadership/201909/human-beings-are-not-insects-vermin-parasites-or

 

“Amts sprache” … (This expression was used by Nazi officials to describe a bureaucratic language that denies choice, with words like: “should,” “have to,” “ought.”)

 

https://www.cnvc.org/what-nvc/articles-writings/anger-and-domination-systems/anger-and-domination-systems

 

..::” The most dangerous psychological mistake is the PROJECTION of the shadow onto others. This is the root of almost all conflicts. ~Carl Jung

 

..::” If we do anything to harm someone else” a powerful new factor comes into PLAY: the need to JUSTIFY what you did”… Once the persecutor starts down the path of BLAMING THE VICTIM, he becomes likely to physically and psychologically attack the victim with even GREATER ferocity the next chance he gets. ~ Mistakes Were Made (but not by me) By Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson

 

..::” As the Buddha said, his teaching will not be destroyed by outsiders but by insiders who do not practice the true dharma. ~Chogyam Trungpa

 

..::”We are all going to die” all of us” what a circus! ” THAT ALONE should make us LOVE each other” but it doesn’t… We are terrorized and flattered by trivialities” we are eaten up by nothing. ~Charles Bukowski

 

..::”ca·ve·at emp·tor :: the principle that the buyer alone is responsible for checking the quality and suitability before a purchase is made.  “caveat emptor” still applies when buying your spiritual teachings

 

….:: Hippocratic Oath :: Do no harm :: Ahimsa

 

Ahimsa :: (in Hindu, Buddhist, and Jainist tradition)
respect for all living things and
avoidance of violence toward others”

…..::”Understanding The “New York” History

of ‘BlackFace’ — and why it’s so harmful —

More than 2,500 hate crimes reported

against Asian-Americans in 2020

Amts-sprache:

The Most Dangerous Language in the World

Domination Systems.


 

https://teaching.nmc.edu/anger-and-domination-systems/


 

Part of the Non-Violent Communication that Marshall Rosenberg teaches includes understanding anger.  Anger, Rosenberg believes, is never the problem.  The problem is that the angry person is supporting what he calls the Domination System.  The Domination System consists of four parts:

  1. Suppression of Self
  2. Moralistic judgments
  3. Amtssprache (this expression was used by Nazi officials to describe a bureaucratic language that denies choice, with words like should, have to, ought)
  4. The crucial concept of deserve (entitled class)

This system trains people to think and communicate in ways that support the system.  In the Domination System there are only two types of people: nice (passive) people or bullies. When you are in a position of authority you are justified in being a bully. You don’t call yourself a bully – you call yourself an authority. In domination systems authorities are given legal power to bully through the system of deserve, in which punishment, rewards and other forms of coercion get you to do things.

 

Rosenberg believes that when we buy into this system we  have to make people feel bad about themselves and be penitent. The whole idea is you have to make people realize they are wrong, so you need a language that does that, you need moralistic judgment that implies evil or bad, with words like: good, bad, right, wrong, abnormal, incompetent etc.  Rosenberg writes, “You have to make violence enjoyable for domination systems to work.”  Bullies feel great when they are bullying.  Employers trying to intimidate employees with nasty letters and scare tactics feel justified in their bullying because they are supporting the domination system.  They feel good when they are punishing. Employees sitting back passively doing nothing out of fear feed the system. We allow the bully to feel justified because we think we deserve whatever we get.  All of this is part of the domination system.

 

So, what do we do?  We break this cycle.  Do not suppress who you are; do not judge; do not succumb to the bureaucratic language that denies your freedom; do not under any circumstances believe that you “deserve” what the domination system is telling you nor believe that someone else “deserves” what the domination system is giving them.

 

Now, back to anger.  If you are angry, then you have a need that is not being met.  Instead of perpetuating the domination system by lashing out in anger, stop.  Take a deep breath and figure out what you need.  Use non-violent communication to express that need while still respecting the person in front of you.  We can break free of anger and the domination system if we decide to focus on our true nature: compassion.


 

https://teaching.nmc.edu/anger-and-domination-systems/

 

…:: Who would laugh with joy at children suffering?

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Why do we enjoy another’s misfortune?

Author Tiffany Watt Smith’s insight into schadenfreude

Tiffany_Watt_Smith

The word “schadenfreude” comes from the German “schaden,” meaning damage or harm, and “freude,” meaning joy or pleasure.

https://www.cbc.ca/radio/sunday/the-sunday-edition-for-march-10-2019-1.5048324/why-do-we-enjoy-another-s-misfortune-author-tiffany-watt-smith-s-insight-into-schadenfreude-1.5049085
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..::”Nobody in the world, nobody in history, has ever gotten their freedom by appealing to the moral sense of people who are oppressing them.

 
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Active Listening

We Think We Listen, but that might be a thought!

https://empathymatters.org/now/active-listening-carl-rogers/

Understanding this could greatly reduce human suffering.

A https://empathymatters.org/now/ifs-spirit/

B https://empathymatters.org/now/how-evil-triumphs

🌺❤🌺“The finest emotion of which we are capable is the mystic emotion. Herein lies the seed of all art and all true science. Anyone to whom this feeling is alien, who is no longer capable of wonderment and lives in a state of fear is already dead. ~Albert Einstein
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🌺❤🌺”Refusing humility traps you in delusion.
~People will convince themselves they are fighting you…
~while being blind to the fact that it was never actually about you…
~it has actually been a one-sided beef with their Creator all along.
~This is why we say, “Don’t kill the messenger ♡🌺❤🌺
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🌺❤🌺 Love Albert Einstein 🌺 … Only a comic book bible would suggest a cultish behavior to genoc~~ everyone else, but some special chosen ones? OMG
 
 

Imagine living on a planet where the rich get richer by indoctrinating the people to follow ancient dogma, repeating an ancient doctrine of genocide projected onto innocent children, again and again, the rich get richer, and the children receive brutal indoctrination instead of Living Their Sacred Free & Joyful Life.

 

#IFS #Spirit #Self #Courage

 

Secret History: How Evil Triumphs: 

 

Lawhorn

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