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Flying Monkeys…

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..::”Bully-worship, under various disguises, has become a universal religion… A people that elect corrupt politicians, impostors, thieves, and traitors are not victims… but accomplices. ~George Orwell

Explanation of vigilante violence

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1477370819887518

flying_monkey

When politicians smear the reputation of their opponents publicly
and declare superiority… the “Smear Campaign” has begun.

 

Flying Monkeys

‘Flying Monkey’ is the term given to those proud, loyal ‘agents‘ and allies that collude with an ‘abusive’ person.

 

The role of each ‘Flying Monkey’ is to continue carrying out the initial abuse by tormenting the ‘victim’ on the abuser’s behalf. The abuser gets to ‘abuse by proxy’ since it is the ‘Flying Monkeys’ that are getting their hands dirty, while the abuser wears a ‘mask’ of innocence.

 

It is a way of perpetuating abuse.  Again, the abuser’s hands appear to be ‘clean’ since the ‘Flying Monkeys’ are doing the ‘dirty work’ for the abuser.

 

So why does the narcissist need allies?

 

First of all, regardless of what happened, narcissists believe the victim deserves ‘punishment’.  Narcissists do not accept any responsibility for their actions, but neither do they want to accept the consequences. 

Narcissists believe they are right, justified, proud, and entitled. To the Narcissist, it is ‘always’ the victim’s fault, and in their world, winning is never enough. They desire to destroy the victim, their support network, self-esteem, reputation, and anything else they can ruin.

 

Narcissists live in a make-believe world, but they need others to believe in that world too. By recruiting flying monkeys, they are creating a cult around themselves with them at the center as the worshipful leader.

 

So they recruit others to do their dirty work for them, people who collude with them, and act as agents on their behalf. People who subscribe to their false version of reality.

 

Since the abuser carefully controls the information each ‘agent’ gets, they get to control the reality of their ‘cult’.

 

The more people they recruit to their ’cause’, the more they believe their own false narrative. They live in their own world of entitlement, self-righteousness, and false innocence.

 

The flying monkey’s main role is to discredit the victim.

 

 https://empathymatters.org/now/flying-monkeys/

 

SOURCE: https://sentientcounselling.co.uk/2020/08/14/flying-monkeys-agents-of-the-narcissist/

 

Image: jerome-k-moore.deviantart.com

 

When politicians diminish their opponents publicly and proclaim superiority… the “Smear Campaign” has begun, spawning the political flying monkeys.

 

Flying monkeys often have strong narcissistic traits themselves, including a desire for attention, a lack of empathy, and a desire to bully and manipulate others. They may be involved in a family, work, or other situation in which they know that their best opportunity to fulfill their narcissistic desires comes from allying themselves with a more powerful narcissist.

 
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202010/are-you-narcissist-s-flying-monkey
 
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Many people use the word feeling and thought interchangeably. In nonviolent communication, when we use the word feeling, we want it to refer to an emotion that a person is experiencing that doesn’t contain any diagnosis or intellectual analysis of the other person. 

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..::”Nobody in the world, nobody in history, has ever gotten their freedom by appealing to the moral sense of people who are oppressing them.

 
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Active Listening

We Think We Listen, but that might be a thought!

https://empathymatters.org/now/active-listening-carl-rogers/

Understanding this could greatly reduce human suffering.

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B https://empathymatters.org/now/how-evil-triumphs

🌺❤🌺“The finest emotion of which we are capable is the mystic emotion. Herein lies the seed of all art and all true science. Anyone to whom this feeling is alien, who is no longer capable of wonderment and lives in a state of fear is already dead. ~Albert Einstein
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🌺❤🌺”Refusing humility traps you in delusion.
~People will convince themselves they are fighting you…
~while being blind to the fact that it was never actually about you…
~it has actually been a one-sided beef with their Creator all along.
~This is why we say, “Don’t kill the messenger ♡🌺❤🌺
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🌺❤🌺 Love Albert Einstein 🌺 … Only a comic book bible would suggest a cultish behavior to genoc~~ everyone else, but some special chosen ones? OMG
 
 

Imagine living on a planet where the rich get richer by indoctrinating the people to follow ancient dogma, repeating an ancient doctrine of genocide projected onto innocent children, again and again, the rich get richer, and the children receive brutal indoctrination instead of Living Their Sacred Free & Joyful Life.

 

#IFS #Spirit #Self #Courage

 

Secret History: How Evil Triumphs: 

 

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