How to transform... (NVC)
Evaluation To Observation
The first step in compassionate communication
You can practice translating your Evaluations into Observations in the comments below!
I am experimenting with making informative videos for learning and practicing NVC skills and I would love your feedback so that I can make them more effective for your use and learning.
I am aware of the background and video quality, I am open for hearing tips or easy ways to improve these things (however this is not what i wish to focus on at the moment)
For now I am mostly interested in your feedback around the information given and the topic and what helps you to learn through video's vrs what get's in the way.
As ever I am very open and excited to hear from you as it brings me connection with my listeners, so please go ahead and share your heart reactions, judgments, thoughts, questions or anything else you would like me to know.
IF you would like to read more about the work that I do with compassionate Communication, please visit my website at: EmpathArt.com
You can also sign up for a free trial active listening session with me where I will listen to you with compassion and curiosity for what is happening in your life rite now. ~Emma Buggy
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” Nobody in the world, nobody in history, has ever gotten their freedom by appealing to the moral sense of people who are oppressing them.
We Think We Listen, but that might only be a thought!
“Our first reaction to most of the statements that we hear from other people is an immediate evaluation or judgment, rather than understanding. I believe this is because understanding seems risky.
~Carl Rogers
https://empathymatters.org/now/active-listening-carl-rogers/
“The finest emotion of which we are capable is the mystic emotion. Herein lies the seed of all art and all true science. Anyone to whom this feeling is alien, who is no longer capable of wonderment and lives in a state of fear is already dead.
~Albert Einstein
..::”For me, the Jewish religion, like all others, is an incarnation of the most childish superstitions… And the Jewish people have no different quality for me than all other people”. ~ Albert Einstein
Einstein viewed the “cult of individuals” as unjustified and often in bad taste, noting that it was unfair to select a few for “boundless admiration” while ignoring everyone else.
(He explicitly stated he could not see anything “chosen” about Jewish people)
”Refusing humility traps you in delusion.♡ Love Albert Einstein … Only a comic book bible would suggest a cultish behavior to genoc~~ everyone else, but some special chosen ones?~ OMG
Imagine living on the only known planet in the infinite universe, where the mortified rich get richer by colonizing the people to follow debunked dogma, repeating an ancient doctrine of war, projected onto innocent children, again and again, the rich get richer, and the children inherit a brutal indoctrination instead of Living Sacred Life. https://empathymatters.org/armageddon/
