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meet anger with empathy, contempt with compassion, and cruelty with kindness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">This concept suggests that individuals who have experienced pain or trauma may unconsciously pass on that hurt to others, creating a cycle that can only be broken through a conscious choice to respond with compassion and forgiveness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The core idea: People who are in pain tend to inflict pain on others, passing on negative patterns across generations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The solution: The quote proposes a path to break this cycle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Meet anger with empathy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Respond to contempt with compassion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Counter cruelty with kindness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Let go of the need to find fault and practice forgiveness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The outcome: The quote ends with the powerful statement, &#8220;Love is the weapon of the future,&#8221; suggesting that love and compassion are the tools to stop this cycle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Yehuda Berg: was born in Israel, is the author of many books on Kabbalah. He led the Kabbalah Centre until 2014.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Philip Berg: Yehuda Berg&#8217;s father, who was an Israeli rabbi, founded the Kabbalah Centre in Israel and then moved to the United States.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Yehuda Berg grew up in a Jewish environment and received a kabbalistic education by his father and an orthodox rabbinic ordination from a rabbinic seminary in Israel. As an active contributor of the Kabbalah Centre since the 1990s, he has developed his own Kabbalah interpretation focusing on self-improvement and healing, and has coached many Kabbalah Centre students, including some celebrities. In 2004, Yehuda Berg became co-director of the Kabbalah Centre.\u00a0<br \/><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<h4>See also: <a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/amalek\/\">Amalek<\/a><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-radius: 20px; text-align: left; border: thin solid black; margin: 1px; line-height: 180%; font-weight: 600; background-color: #fae955; color: #000; font-size: 120%; padding: 3%;\">\n<div style=\"height: 15px; text-align: center;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=Yehuda+Berg+left+the+Kabbalah+Teaching+Centre+due+to+a+sexual+harassment+lawsuit+filed+against+him+by+a+young+female+student+in+2014+Vicodin+alcohol\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">However, Yehuda Berg left the Kabbalah Teaching Centre due to a sexual harassment lawsuit filed against him by a young female student in 2014.<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=Yehuda+Berg+left+the+Kabbalah+Teaching+Centre+due+to+a+sexual+harassment+lawsuit+filed+against+him+by+a+young+female+student+in+2014+Vicodin+alcohol\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Link<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 5px; text-align: center;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<center>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/center>\n<div style=\"border-radius: 20px; text-align: left; border: thin solid black; margin: 1px; line-height: 180%; font-weight: 600; background-color: #f4caf8ff; color: #000; font-size: 100%; padding: 3%;\">\n<div style=\"height: 30px; text-align: center;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">..::&#8221;Nobody in the world, nobody in history, has ever gotten their freedom by appealing to the moral sense of people who are oppressing them. <br \/>~ <a class=\"omw-open-modal\" href=\"#omw-43420\">Assata Shakur<\/a><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 100%; font-weight: 600;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<div style=\"border-radius: 20px; text-align: left; border: thin solid black; margin: 1px; line-height: 180%; font-weight: 600; background-color: #dff; color: #000; font-size: 100%; padding: 3%;\">\n<div style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 100%; font-weight: 600;\">\n<h1><strong>On an individual level, <br \/>healing strategies include:<\/strong>\u00a0<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<ul style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 100%; font-weight: 600;\">\n<li><strong>Developing self-awareness<\/strong>: Practices like mindfulness can help individuals perceive and witness their own thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, rather than being ruled by them.\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Finding safe spaces<\/strong>: Processing emotional pain requires a safe environment, whether through talking with a trusted person, a support group, or a mental health professional.\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Creating a new narrative<\/strong>: By exploring and sharing one&#8217;s trauma story, it becomes less upsetting. This can happen through writing or speaking with trusted individuals.\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Practicing self-regulation<\/strong>: Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, and physical activity can help regulate the nervous system and calm the &#8220;fight, flight, or freeze&#8221; response.\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Active Choice<\/strong>: Individuals can choose to break the cycle by seeking healing, forgiveness, and a living relationship with Self, thereby creating a different path for their own and future generations.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 100%; font-weight: 600;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<div style=\"border-radius: 20px; text-align: left; border: thin solid black; margin: 1px; line-height: 180%; font-weight: 600; background-color: #fff; color: #000; font-size: 100%; padding: 3%;\">\n<p>Using Internal Family Systems (IFS) terminology, Matthew 6:24 illustrates the conflict of a person&#8217;s &#8220;Self&#8221; being torn between two competing &#8220;Protectors&#8221; or &#8220;Exiles&#8221;: the &#8220;God&#8221; part and the &#8220;Mammon&#8221; (MONEY\/materialism) part.<\/p>\n<p>A person cannot fully serve both, as each has a different agenda that creates internal conflict, forcing the Self to choose which to prioritize to avoid being overwhelmed by one&#8217;s own divided system.<\/p>\n<p>This is because &#8220;Mammon\/MONEY&#8221; operates as an external and potentially idolatrous &#8220;Protector&#8221; seeking security, while the &#8220;God&#8221; part represents a deeper spiritual &#8220;Witness&#8221; that can be neglected when &#8220;Mammon\/MONEY&#8221; rules.<\/p>\n<h2>Key concepts in IFS terms<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>Conflicting parts:<\/h2>\n<p>The &#8220;God&#8221; part and the &#8220;Mammon&#8221; part are presented as two opposing managers or leaders within a person&#8217;s system. One is a part focused on spiritual and eternal things, while the other is a part focused on material wealth and security.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>Protector vs. Self:<\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>When a person tries to serve both, it&#8217;s because &#8220;Mammon\/MONEY&#8221; is acting as a &#8220;Protector&#8221; part, attempting to provide a sense of safety and worth. This creates an internal conflict with the &#8220;Self,&#8221; which is the core of the person&#8217;s being that should be in charge.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>Divided allegiance:<\/h2>\n<p>The scripture highlights that a divided heart is unsustainable. A person cannot maintain equal loyalty to two opposing &#8220;masters&#8221; because the &#8220;Protectors&#8221; demand different actions and have conflicting goals. One will be loved while the other is despised, leading to internal &#8220;hatred&#8221; or resentment.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>The choice:<\/h2>\n<p>The choice is not between being rich and being poor, but between which part has ultimate authority. Serving God is the way to achieve ultimate security, as it allows the &#8220;Self&#8221; to be in charge, while serving &#8220;Mammon&#8221; means the &#8220;Protector&#8221; takes over and exerts control over the person&#8217;s life.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2>Exile and unburdening:<\/h2>\n<p>Choosing &#8220;God&#8221; over &#8220;Mammon&#8221; is a path of &#8220;unburdening&#8221; the &#8220;Mammon&#8221; part, as the person&#8217;s security and worth are not dependent on material possessions. This allows the &#8220;Self&#8221; to lead and the &#8220;Mammon&#8221; part to be seen as a tool rather than the master.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 100%; font-weight: 600;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"box-shadow: 5px 5px 5px #999999; border-radius: 20px; text-align: center; border: thin solid black; padding: 3%; margin: 1px; line-height: 100%; font-weight: 600; background-color: #fff; color: #000; font-size: 80%;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/empathymatters.org<\/a><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f462498 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f462498\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8384490 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"8384490\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-be9a973 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"be9a973\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c733266 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"c733266\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"> \t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"page\" data-elementor-id=\"54827\" class=\"elementor elementor-54827\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bc79845 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"bc79845\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c9554ff e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c9554ff\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-102a388 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"102a388\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-94dd72c e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"94dd72c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-57638b5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"57638b5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Social systems are highly vulnerable to psychological dynamics.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><br \/><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Psychological Projections<\/strong> and &#8220;In-Groups&#8221;<\/span><br \/><br \/>The phenomenon of a group projecting its own history or guilt onto an &#8220;out-group&#8221; is a well-documented concept in social psychology known as <a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/active-listening-carl-rogers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">scapegoating<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>* When a society or group faces a deeply uncomfortable truth about its history, it often experiences intense <a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/active-listening-carl-rogers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cognitive dissonance<\/a>.<br \/><br \/>* To alleviate this psychological discomfort, individuals or groups may seek out a historically marginalized target\u2014an &#8220;out-group&#8221;\u2014to carry the unconscious heavy burden of blame.\u00a0<br \/>\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/darvo-101\/\">See DARVO<\/a><\/strong><br \/><br \/>* This deflects accountability and allows the dominant &#8220;IN-group&#8221; to maintain a positive self-image (<a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/ego-fabricated-identity\/\">false ego pride<\/a>).\u00a0 \u00a0<strong><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/darvo-101\/\">See DARVO<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The Crucifixion as a Archetypal Narrative:<\/span> \u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/darvo-101\/\">See DARVO<\/a><\/strong><br \/><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/ifs-spirit-jesus\/\">The narrative of Jesus aligns<\/a> with what historians and sociologists call an archetypal human behavior pattern.<\/p>\n<p>* Across different eras, human crowds frequently display a mob mentality when confronted with truth, discomfort, or societal stress.<br \/><br \/>* Rather than <a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/active-listening-carl-rogers\/\">engaging in collective self-reflection<\/a>, historical groups have repeatedly unified themselves by targeting, condemning, and punishing a single entity or minority group. <br \/>(See: <a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/active-listening-carl-rogers\/\">scapegoating<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/darvo-101\/\">DARVO<\/a> )<br \/><br \/>* This <a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/darvo-101\/\">DARVO<\/a> pattern of fear based human behavior has remained remarkably consistent across thousands of years of human history.<\/p>\n<p><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Major fact-checking and societal hurdles<\/span>: [1]<\/p>\n<p><br \/>* <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The Trust Deficit:<\/span> Research shows that individuals who are deeply entrenched in conspiracy theories or extremist echo chambers rarely change their minds when presented with an automated &#8220;false&#8221; label. Instead, they often claim the fact-checker itself is part of a biased cover-up.<br \/><br \/>* Historically, human cultures have used <a href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/active-listening-carl-rogers\/\">scapegoating<\/a> during times of economic or social crisis.<br \/><br \/>[1] [ <a href=\"https:\/\/today.duke.edu\/2021\/03\/don%E2%80%99t-online-outrage-look-inward\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/today.duke.edu\/2021\/03\/don%E2%80%99t-online-outrage-look-inward<\/a>\u00a0 )<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c1ff04e e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c1ff04e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6020cd7 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"6020cd7\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-39b40b7 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"39b40b7\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7e73a75 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"7e73a75\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-430d961 elementor-widget elementor-widget-n-accordion\" data-id=\"430d961\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;default_state&quot;:&quot;all_collapsed&quot;,&quot;max_items_expended&quot;:&quot;one&quot;,&quot;n_accordion_animation_duration&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;ms&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:400,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"nested-accordion.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-n-accordion\" aria-label=\"Accordion. 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Recognizing these twelve common biases can significantly improve your reasoning, investments, and daily judgment.<\/p>\n<p><br \/>The 12 Common Cognitive Biases<br \/><br \/><br \/>Confirmation Bias: The tendency to search for, interpret, and favor information that confirms your preexisting beliefs while ignoring contradictory evidence.<br \/><br \/><br \/>Anchoring Bias: The reliance too heavily on the first piece of information encountered (the &#8220;anchor&#8221;) when making decisions, even if it is irrelevant.<br \/><br \/><br \/>Availability Heuristic: Estimating the likelihood of events based on how easily examples come to mind, leading to an overestimation of dramatic or recent events.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Dunning-Kruger Effect: A phenomenon where people with limited knowledge or competence in a domain greatly overestimate their own expertise or intelligence.<br \/><br \/><br \/>Sunk Cost Fallacy: The continuation of a flawed endeavor because of unrecoverable resources (time, money, or effort) already invested.<br \/><br \/><br \/>Halo Effect: The tendency to let your overall impression of a person or brand influence how you feel about their specific character or traits (e.g., assuming an attractive person is also highly intelligent).<br \/><br \/><br \/>Bandwagon Effect: The adoption of certain beliefs or behaviors primarily because many other people are doing so; also known as groupthink.<br \/><br \/><br \/>Hindsight Bias: The inclination to see past events as having been entirely predictable, often summarized as the &#8220;I knew it all along&#8221; phenomenon.<br \/><br \/><br \/>Self-Serving Bias: The habit of claiming credit for personal successes while attributing failures or mistakes to external circumstances or bad luck.<br \/><br \/><br \/>Survivorship Bias: The logical error of focusing only on successful outcomes and ignoring failures, leading to a distorted perception of reality (e.g., studying only successful startups to learn how to run a business).<br \/><br \/><br \/>Ostrich Effect: The subconscious decision to ignore dangerous, negative, or painful information, equivalent to &#8220;burying your head in the sand&#8221;.<br \/><br \/><br \/>Blind Spot Bias: The tendency to see oneself as less biased and more objective than other people<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/details>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-66b39c1 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"66b39c1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b6304df e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"b6304df\" data-element_type=\"container\" 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