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data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-827caf1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"827caf1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"502\" height=\"437\" src=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/trauma-paul-conti-dr-1.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-15308\" alt=\"trauma--paul-conti\" srcset=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/trauma-paul-conti-dr-1.png 502w, https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/trauma-paul-conti-dr-1-300x261.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 502px) 100vw, 502px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-168b71c\" data-id=\"168b71c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9c92d8e e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"9c92d8e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-42c7d8b elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"42c7d8b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8f793c2 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8f793c2\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5fa8604\" data-id=\"5fa8604\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-681b957 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"681b957\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f89e39f\" data-id=\"f89e39f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8f6a7aa elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"8f6a7aa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.youtube.com\\\/watch?v=IOl28gj_RXw&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2b49122\" data-id=\"2b49122\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-80fb561 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"80fb561\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fb6141a elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"fb6141a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-259607e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"259607e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-9d57a41\" data-id=\"9d57a41\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e291bb5\" data-id=\"e291bb5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-74d4060 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"74d4060\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Dr. Conti earned his MD at Stanford and did his residency at Harvard Medical School.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">He now runs the Pacific Premiere Group\u2014a clinical practice helping people heal and grow from trauma and other life challenges.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Trauma: and its far-reaching effects on the mind and body, as well as the best treatment approaches for trauma.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-80392fa\" data-id=\"80392fa\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-43d6383 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"43d6383\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d90e1d9\" data-id=\"d90e1d9\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-55d1bff elementor-widget elementor-widget-elementskit-social-share\" data-id=\"55d1bff\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"elementskit-social-share.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"ekit-wid-con\" >\t\t<ul class=\"ekit_socialshare\">\n                            <li class=\"elementor-repeater-item-e464671\" data-social=\"facebook\">\n                    <div class=\"facebook\">\n                        \n                        <i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"icon icon-facebook\"><\/i>                        \n                                                                                            <\/div>\n                <\/li>\n                                            <li class=\"elementor-repeater-item-b87ae81\" data-social=\"twitter\">\n                    <div 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elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"275223c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3e770c7\" data-id=\"3e770c7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4a7edaf\" data-id=\"4a7edaf\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-97bccc9 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"97bccc9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0d42c6d\" data-id=\"0d42c6d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f203004 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f203004\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-149d856\" data-id=\"149d856\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-9c2026f\" data-id=\"9c2026f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-db11c4a elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"db11c4a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"qme\" dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/NonviolentCommunication?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#NonviolentCommunication<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/NVC?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#NVC<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/MarshallRosenberg?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#MarshallRosenberg<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/Kflq49JQeo\">pic.twitter.com\/Kflq49JQeo<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Marshall Rosenberg Quotes (@MBR_Quotes) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/MBR_Quotes\/status\/1585659031603089413?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 27, 2022<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-9c9d75b\" data-id=\"9c9d75b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d33ff85 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d33ff85\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2713552\" data-id=\"2713552\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d20fa40\" data-id=\"d20fa40\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-31fd9f5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"31fd9f5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1007\" src=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/ego-is-not-you-2b-1024x1007.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-15326\" alt=\"ego-is-not-you-2b\" srcset=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/ego-is-not-you-2b-1024x1007.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/ego-is-not-you-2b-300x295.jpg 300w, https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/ego-is-not-you-2b-768x755.jpg 768w, https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/ego-is-not-you-2b.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-65be941\" data-id=\"65be941\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f296f2d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f296f2d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6dd925f elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"6dd925f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-9fb9708 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"9fb9708\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5a69b81\" data-id=\"5a69b81\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3ae98ae\" data-id=\"3ae98ae\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-23ec443 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"23ec443\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">..::&#8221; The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions&#8230; the work you do&#8230; social status and recognition&#8230; knowledge and education&#8230; physical appearance&#8230; special abilities&#8230; relationships&#8230; person and family history&#8230; belief systems&#8230; and often also political&#8230; nationalistic, racial, religious, and other collective identifications&#8230;. <\/span><br \/><span style=\"color: #000000;\">None of these is you&#8230; ~Eckhart Tolle\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c5a73a7\" data-id=\"c5a73a7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d4f80ed elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d4f80ed\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-572a429\" data-id=\"572a429\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-cdd718c\" data-id=\"cdd718c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f5fc9fe elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"f5fc9fe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-011225c\" data-id=\"011225c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6fc8056 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6fc8056\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c50c1bf\" data-id=\"c50c1bf\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e89e8d\" data-id=\"4e89e8d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3845a02 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"3845a02\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"698\" height=\"419\" src=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/carl_rogers_pair.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4722\" alt=\"carl_rogers\" srcset=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/carl_rogers_pair.jpg 698w, https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/carl_rogers_pair-300x180.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 698px) 100vw, 698px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-089e909\" data-id=\"089e909\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dd2063c e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"dd2063c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-839a064 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"839a064\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-15375b4 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"15375b4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-92003e3\" data-id=\"92003e3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e13aecb\" data-id=\"e13aecb\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5ea3faf elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5ea3faf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Carl Rogers: Reflections of Feelings<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">REF: Carl Rogers :: Reflections of Feelings &#8230; <a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.centerfortheperson.org\/product\/reflections-of-feelings\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.centerfortheperson.org\/product\/reflections-of-feelings\/<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8220;Although I am partially responsible for the use of this term to describe a certain type of therapist response, I have, over the years, become very unhappy with it. A major reason is that &#8220;reflection of feelings&#8221; has not infrequently been taught as a technique, and sometimes a very wooden technique at that. On the basis of written client expressions, the learner is expected to concoct a &#8220;correct&#8221; reflection of feeling &#8211; or even worse, to select the &#8220;correct&#8221; response from a multiple-choice list. Such training has very little to do with an effective therapeutic relationship. So I have become more and more allergic to the use of the term&#8230;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I have come to a double insight. From my point of view as therapist, I am not trying to &#8220;reflect feelings&#8221;. I am trying to determine whether my understanding of the client&#8217;s inner world is correct &#8211; whether I am seeing it as s\/he is experiencing it at this moment. Each response of mine contains the unspoken question, \u2018Is this the way it is in you?<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-de76b3e\" data-id=\"de76b3e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4bde5bd elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4bde5bd\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2e835c9\" data-id=\"2e835c9\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-eb5093a elementor-widget elementor-widget-elementskit-social-share\" data-id=\"eb5093a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"elementskit-social-share.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"ekit-wid-con\" >\t\t<ul class=\"ekit_socialshare\">\n                            <li class=\"elementor-repeater-item-5160a34\" data-social=\"facebook\">\n                    <div class=\"facebook\">\n                        \n                        <i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"icon icon-facebook\"><\/i>                        \n                                                                                            <\/div>\n                <\/li>\n                                            <li class=\"elementor-repeater-item-8d08fe6\" data-social=\"twitter\">\n                    <div class=\"twitter\">\n                        \n                        <i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"icon icon-twitter\"><\/i>                        \n                                                                                            <\/div>\n                <\/li>\n                                            <li class=\"elementor-repeater-item-56b6d11\" data-social=\"linkedin\">\n                    <div class=\"linkedin\">\n                        \n                        <i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"icon icon-linkedin\"><\/i>                        \n                                                                                            <\/div>\n                <\/li>\n                                    <\/ul>\n        <\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b108a6b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b108a6b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-56c8937\" data-id=\"56c8937\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-915b1be elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"915b1be\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8636055\" data-id=\"8636055\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-fbee2d7\" data-id=\"fbee2d7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0e61055 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"0e61055\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span 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data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-71856a6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"71856a6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"136\" src=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/empathy-exclusion-1-300x136.png\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-14998\" alt=\"empathy-exclusion\" srcset=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/empathy-exclusion-1-300x136.png 300w, https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/empathy-exclusion-1.png 543w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-cda2d08 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"cda2d08\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-766e1cd\" data-id=\"766e1cd\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-00291c4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-elementskit-social-share\" data-id=\"00291c4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"elementskit-social-share.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"ekit-wid-con\" >\t\t<ul class=\"ekit_socialshare\">\n                            <li class=\"elementor-repeater-item-25187b7\" data-social=\"facebook\">\n                    <div class=\"facebook\">\n                        \n                        <i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"icon icon-facebook\"><\/i>                        \n                                                                                            <\/div>\n                <\/li>\n                                            <li class=\"elementor-repeater-item-f4e63fa\" data-social=\"twitter\">\n                    <div class=\"twitter\">\n                        \n                        <i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"icon icon-twitter\"><\/i>                        \n                                                                                            <\/div>\n                <\/li>\n                                            <li class=\"elementor-repeater-item-4c5e753\" data-social=\"linkedin\">\n                    <div class=\"linkedin\">\n                        \n                        <i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"icon icon-linkedin\"><\/i>                        \n                                                                                            <\/div>\n                <\/li>\n                                    <\/ul>\n        <\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a29e39f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a29e39f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f9e2c87\" data-id=\"f9e2c87\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6827ee2\" data-id=\"6827ee2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6421df1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6421df1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0An Investigation into the Limits of Empathy\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Thomas Fuchs<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Abstract<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">There is a conspicuous tendency of humans to experience empathy and sympathy preferentially towards members of their own group, whereas empathetic feelings towards outgroup members or strangers are often reduced or even missing. This may culminate in a \u201cdissociation of empathy\u201d: a historical example are the cases of Nazi perpetrators who behaved as compassionate family men on the one hand, yet committed crimes of utter cruelty against Jews on the other.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The paper aims at explaining such phenomena and at determining the limits of empathy. To this purpose, it \ufb01rst distinguishes between two levels of empathy, namely primary or intercorporeal and extended or higher-level empathy. It then investigates the mutual interconnection of empathy and recognition, which may be regarded as a principle of extending empathy to others regardless of whether they belong to one\u2019s own group or not.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">However, this principle is in con\ufb02ict with in group conformism and outgroup biases that hamper the universal extension of empathy.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Thus, a denial of recognition and exclusion of others from one\u2019s ingroup usually results in a withdrawal or lack of extended empathy which then in\ufb02uences primary empathy as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">On this basis, and using the historical example of mass executions during the Holocaust, the paper investigates the mechanisms of exclusion that may lead to a withdrawal of recognition and \ufb01nally to a dissociation of empathy.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Introduction<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">There is a conspicuous tendency of humans to experience empathy, and even more so sympathy, preferentially towards members of their own group. On the contrary, empathetic feelings toward out-group members or strangers may often be diminished or even be missing completely.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">This may culminate in a compartmentalization or dissociation of empathy: a well-known historical example can be seen in the cases of Nazi perpetrators who behaved as compassionate family men on the one hand, yet committed crimes of utter cruelty against Jews on the other, apparently with little or no feelings of empathy or pity.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Sadly enough, one could add many other examples such as the genocide perpetrated by the Serbs against the Bosnians in the Balkan war, or by the Hutu against the Tutsi in Rwanda, both occurring in the 90s of the last century.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">In all these cases, the crimes were committed against a group that had previously lived in peaceful neighborhoods with the perpetrators and had \ufb01rst to be de\ufb01ned as an outgroup, often on the basis of highly questionable criteria.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Thus, the capacity of empathy as such is apparently not su\ufb03cient to be felt and realized towards all members of the human species as a matter of course.\u00a0 A \ufb01rst assumption would be that its extension beyond the primary group requires an additional identi\ufb01cation with the other as one\u2019s equal, which in social philosophy is usually conceived as a relationship of reciprocal recognition.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">A further conclusion can be drawn from the historical examples: through a kind of rede\ufb01nition and a corresponding reframing of interpersonal perception, recognition may be withdrawn or denied.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Then people who previously belonged quite naturally to one\u2019s own community, right up to one\u2019s immediate neighbors or acquaintances, may suddenly become outsiders, pariahs, or unpersons towards whom even basal human feelings of empathy or compassion are no longer felt. Empathy may then be \u201cunhooked\u201d, as it were, or dissociated.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The question of how this unsettling dissociation of empathy may be explained is the central topic of my paper.\u00a0 This question is not easy to answer, and to prepare the ground, we will need a rather broad basis in social philosophy and psychology. An important concept in this context consists in the notion of recognition as introduced famously by Hegel in the Phenomenology of Mind (1807 \/ 1967), and readopted more recently by Cavell (1969), Taylor (1992), and Honneth (1996,2008), among others.\u00a0 \u00a0The recognition or acknowledgment of the other as a person to whose claim or call I have to respond has been proposed as a fundament of human relationships, sometimes even as a presupposition of empathy itself.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Recognition may be denied, however, in particular as a result of a deprivation of the fundamental claims and rights that a person enjoys as a member of a community of mutual obligations. Such experiences of misrecognition and social exclusion often result in a \u201cstruggle for recognition\u201d (Honneth 1996) on the part of individuals or whole groups who su\ufb00er from the discrimination.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">They are usually connected to a withdrawal or lack of empathetic feelings on part of the members of the discriminating group. This helps to specify the question I want to investigate in the following, namely how empathy is connected to (a) recognition and (b) group identity in such a way that a lack or loss of empathetic feelings may occur under certain circumstances.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">This can be further expressed by the following questions:<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u2013 What is the nature of empathy? Should we regard it as a primary form of interpersonal connectedness or rather as being dependent on antecedent recognition and identi\ufb01cation with the other?<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u2013 How far does empathy reach? Is there something like a general empathetic disposition (\u201cuniversal empathy\u201d) that can be restricted or suspended secondarily, or is empathy only gradually and under certain conditions extended from one\u2019s kin to outgroup members?<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u2013 What are the presuppositions for a withdrawal of empathy from other people? What are the mechanisms of exclusion that cause a dissociation of empathy?<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<h6><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.academia.edu\/38296434\/Empathy_Group_Identity_and_the_Mechanisms_of_Exclusion\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.academia.edu\/38296434\/Empathy_Group_Identity_and_the_Mechanisms_of_Exclusion<\/a><\/span><\/h6>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<div style=\"height: 17px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<hr style=\"color: #919090; background-color: #919090; height: 2px; border: none;\" \/>\n<div style=\"height: 97px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center; width: 350px; border-radius: 20px; border: thin solid black; padding: 10px; margin: 0 auto; font-weight: 650; background-color: #fff; color: #000;\">\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The antithesis of Empathy<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-16 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-87890b3\" data-id=\"87890b3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2d3b388 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"2d3b388\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-616308a e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"616308a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ca50ae8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"ca50ae8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2103e54f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2103e54f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5c18ea4f\" data-id=\"5c18ea4f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-30441c94 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"30441c94\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h4><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/flying_monkey.jpg\" alt=\"flying_monkey\" width=\"307\" height=\"234\" \/><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><!-- h4 style=\"height: 94px;\">When the narcissist curses your name publicly and demands total control... the \"<a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/pro\/exhausted-woman\/2017\/03\/5-ways-narcissists-smear-others#1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Smear Campaign<\/a>\" has begun.<\/h4 --><\/span><\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Flying Monkeys<\/span><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8216;Flying Monkey&#8217; is the term given to those &#8216;<strong>agents<\/strong>&#8216; and allies that collude with an &#8216;abusive&#8217; person.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The role of each &#8216;Flying Monkey&#8217; is to continue carrying out the initial abuse by tormenting the &#8216;victim&#8217; on the abuser&#8217;s behalf. The abuser gets to &#8216;abuse by proxy&#8217; since it is the\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600;\">&#8216;Flying Monkeys&#8217;<\/span>\u00a0that are getting their hands dirty, while the abuser wears a &#8216;mask&#8217; of innocence.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">It is a way of perpetuating abuse.\u00a0 Again, the abuser&#8217;s hands appear to be &#8216;clean&#8217; since the &#8216;Flying Monkeys&#8217; are doing the &#8216;dirty work&#8217; for the abuser.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">So why does the narcissist need allies?<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">First of all, regardless of what happened, narcissists believe the victim deserves &#8216;punishment&#8217;.\u00a0 Narcissists do not accept any responsibility for their actions, but neither do they want to accept the consequences.\u00a0\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600;\">Narcissists<\/span>\u00a0believe they are right, justified, and entitled. <br \/><br \/>To the\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600;\">Narcissist,\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">it is &#8216;always&#8217; the victim&#8217;s fault, and in their world, winning is never enough. They desire to destroy the victim, their support network, self-esteem, reputation, and anything else they can ruin.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Narcissists live in a make-believe world, but they need others to believe in that world too. By recruiting flying monkeys, they are creating a cult around themselves with them at the center as the worshipful leader.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">So they recruit others to do their dirty work for them, people who collude with them, and act as agents on their behalf. People who subscribe to their false version of reality.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Since the abuser carefully controls the information each &#8216;agent&#8217; gets, they get to control the reality of their &#8216;cult&#8217;.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The more people they recruit to their &#8217;cause&#8217;, the more they believe their own false narrative. They live in their own world of entitlement, self-righteousness, and false innocence.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The flying monkey&#8217;s main role is to discredit the victim.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">REF: <a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/flying-monkeys\/\">https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/flying-monkeys\/<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">SOURCE: <a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/sentientcounselling.co.uk\/2020\/08\/14\/flying-monkeys-agents-of-the-narcissist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/sentientcounselling.co.uk\/2020\/08\/14\/flying-monkeys-agents-of-the-narcissist\/<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 34px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Image:\u00a0<a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"http:\/\/jerome-k-moore.deviantart.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">jerome-k-moore.deviantart.com<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 54px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<h3 style=\"height: 94px;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'Josefin Sans'; font-size: 18px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600;\">When a narcissist curses your name&#8230; the &#8220;<\/span><a style=\"font-family: 'Josefin Sans'; font-size: 18px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600; background-color: #f4f1e1; color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/pro\/exhausted-woman\/2017\/03\/5-ways-narcissists-smear-others#1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Smear Campaign<\/a><span style=\"font-family: 'Josefin Sans'; font-size: 18px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600;\">&#8221; has begun<\/span>.<\/span><\/h3>\n<div style=\"height: 2px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Flying monkeys often have strong narcissistic traits themselves, including a desire for attention, a lack of empathy, and a desire to bully and manipulate others. They may be involved in a family, work, or other situation in which they know that their best opportunity to fulfill their narcissistic desires comes from allying themselves with a more powerful narcissist.<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 3px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<h5><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/women-autism-spectrum-disorder\/202010\/are-you-narcissist-s-flying-monkey\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/women-autism-spectrum-disorder\/202010\/are-you-narcissist-s-flying-monkey<\/a>\u00a0<\/span><\/h5>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div style=\"height: 3px;\">\u00a0<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-844283e e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"844283e\" data-element_type=\"container\" 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elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-414e3d7\" data-id=\"414e3d7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0910d7e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0910d7e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8220;To know how we can be peaceful with ourselves when we&#8217;re less than perfect. For example: How we can learn from our limitations without blaming and punishing our self?\u00a0 If we can&#8217;t do that, I&#8217;m not too optimistic how we&#8217;re going to relate peacefully out in the world.\u00a0<\/span><br \/><span style=\"color: #000000;\">~Marshall Rosenberg\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ca3879c\" data-id=\"ca3879c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-32a2db4 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"32a2db4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div 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elementor-element elementor-element-dedaa67\" data-id=\"dedaa67\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b670ab7\" data-id=\"b670ab7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-59568e9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"59568e9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Many people use the word feeling and thought interchangeably. In nonviolent communication, when we use the word feeling, we want it to refer to an emotion that a person is experiencing that doesn&#8217;t contain any diagnosis or intellectual analysis of the other person.\u00a0 \u00a0<a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/flying-monkeys\/\">https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/flying-monkeys\/<\/a><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-bc734a5\" data-id=\"bc734a5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a81b3ba e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"a81b3ba\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div 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href=\"https:\/\/empathymatters.org\/now\/ego-fabricated-identity\/\">cult of individuals<\/a>&#8221; as unjustified and often in bad taste, noting that it was unfair to select a few for &#8220;boundless admiration&#8221; while ignoring everyone else.\u00a0<\/span><br \/><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 11pt;\">(He explicitly stated he could not see anything &#8220;chosen&#8221; about Jewish people)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600; letter-spacing: 0.2px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-style: normal; font-weight: 600; letter-spacing: 0.2px;\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t99\/1\/16\/1f33a.png\" 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you&#8230;<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt;\">~it has actually been a one-sided beef with their Creator all along.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt;\">~This is why we say, \u201cDon\u2019t kill the messenger \u2661<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t99\/1\/16\/1f33a.png\" alt=\"\ud83c\udf3a\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t6c\/1\/16\/2764.png\" alt=\"\u2764\" width=\"16\" height=\"11\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t99\/1\/16\/1f33a.png\" alt=\"\ud83c\udf3a\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" \/>\u2661<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=Poetess+gina+n%C3%A4uman+%E2%80%A2+%D8%AC%DB%8C%D9%86%D8%A7+%D9%86%D8%B9%D9%85%D8%A7%D9%86+%40entertheunseen&amp;oq=Poetess+gina+n%C3%A4uman\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Poetess Gina N\u00e4uman \u2022 \u062c\u06cc\u0646\u0627 \u0646\u0639\u0645\u0627\u0646 @EnterTheUnseen<\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-style: normal; font-weight: 600; letter-spacing: 0.2px;\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t99\/1\/16\/1f33a.png\" alt=\"\ud83c\udf3a\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t99\/1\/16\/1f33a.png\" alt=\"\ud83c\udf3a\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t6c\/1\/16\/2764.png\" alt=\"\u2764\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t99\/1\/16\/1f33a.png\" alt=\"\ud83c\udf3a\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" \/> Love Albert Einstein <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t99\/1\/16\/1f33a.png\" alt=\"\ud83c\udf3a\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" \/> &#8230; Only a comic book bible would suggest a cultish behavior to genoc~~ everyone else, but some special chosen ones?<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 11pt;\">~ OMG<span style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-style: normal; font-weight: 600; letter-spacing: 0.2px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t99\/1\/16\/1f33a.png\" alt=\"\ud83c\udf3a\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" \/><\/span><span style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-style: normal; font-weight: 600; letter-spacing: 0.2px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t6c\/1\/16\/2764.png\" alt=\"\u2764\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" \/><\/span><span style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif; font-style: normal; font-weight: 600; letter-spacing: 0.2px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t99\/1\/16\/1f33a.png\" alt=\"\ud83c\udf3a\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" data-ll-status=\"loaded\" \/><br \/><\/span><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" 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